FYI, the link I gave you uses DriveToWeb to display stuff from my Google Drive account, and DriveToWeb appears to be down at the moment. Hopefully it should be back up soon, but here's the Twine/SugarCube source to the passage I was trying to direct you to:
<h2>{{{<<SetPronouns>>}}} Widget</h2>This widget makes it fairly easy to write text which automatically displays gendered pronouns correctly based on the gender you set.
For example, you could write this text:
{{{
* $They got $themself a new toy for $their collection and $theyre very happy about it.
}}}
And if you had previously done {{{<<SetPronouns "f">>}}}, then that text would display as:<<SetPronouns "f">>
* $They got $themself a new toy for $their collection and $theyre very happy about it.
Alternately, {{{<<SetPronouns>>}}} would give you:<<SetPronouns>>
* $They got $themself a new toy for $their collection and $theyre very happy about it.
And {{{<<SetPronouns "n">>}}} would give you:<<SetPronouns "n">>
* $They got $themself a new toy for $their collection and $theyre very happy about it.
{{{<<SetPronouns "b">>}}} would give you:<<SetPronouns "b">>
* $They got $themself a new toy for $their collection and $theyre very happy about it.
Note that the variables are case sensitive, so (uppercase) {{{$They}}} shows as "$They" and (lowercase) {{{$they}}} shows as "$they". Also, you have to use {{{$Theyre}}} and {{{$theyre}}}, because variables can't have an apostrophe in their name.
To use this, add the following code to a passage with a "widget" tag:
{{{
<<widget "SetPronouns">><<nobr>>
/* Usage... (defaults to male) */
/* for "he": <<SetPronouns>> */
/* for "she": <<SetPronouns "f">> */
/* for "they": <<SetPronouns "b">> */
/* for "it": <<SetPronouns "n">>*/
<<switch $args[0]>>
<<case "f">>
<<set $they = "she">>
<<set $them = "her">>
<<set $themself = "herself">>
<<set $themselves = "themselves">>
<<set $their = "her">>
<<set $theirs = "hers">>
<<set $theyre = "she's">>
<<set $youngPerson = "girl">>
<<set $youngPeople = "girls">>
<<set $adultPerson = "woman">>
<<set $adultPeople = "women">>
<<set $generalPerson = "girl">>
<<set $generalPeople = "girls">>
<<set $pal = "chick">>
<<set $pals = "chicks">>
<<set $They = "She">>
<<set $Them = "Her">>
<<set $Themself = "Herself">>
<<set $Themselves = "Themselves">>
<<set $Their = "Her">>
<<set $Theirs = "Hers">>
<<set $Theyre = "She's">>
<<set $YoungPerson = "Girl">>
<<set $YoungPeople = "Girls">>
<<set $AdultPerson = "Woman">>
<<set $AdultPeople = "Women">>
<<set $GeneralPerson = "Girl">>
<<set $GeneralPeople = "Girls">>
<<set $Pal = "Chick">>
<<set $Pals = "Chicks">>
<<case "b">>
<<set $they = "they">>
<<set $them = "them">>
<<set $themself = "themselves">>
<<set $themselves = "themselves">>
<<set $their = "their">>
<<set $theirs = "theirs">>
<<set $theyre = "they're">>
<<set $youngPerson = "person">>
<<set $youngPeople = "people">>
<<set $adultPerson = "person">>
<<set $adultPeople = "people">>
<<set $generalPerson = "guy">>
<<set $generalPeople = "guys">>
<<set $pal = "pal">>
<<set $pals = "pals">>
<<set $They = "They">>
<<set $Them = "Them">>
<<set $Themself = "Themself">>
<<set $Themselves = "Themselves">>
<<set $Their = "Their">>
<<set $Theirs = "Theirs">>
<<set $Theyre = "They're">>
<<set $YoungPerson = "Person">>
<<set $YoungPeople = "People">>
<<set $AdultPerson = "Person">>
<<set $AdultPeople = "People">>
<<set $GeneralPerson = "Guy">>
<<set $GeneralPeople = "Guys">>
<<set $Pal = "Pal">>
<<set $Pals = "Pals">>
<<case "n">>
<<set $they = "it">>
<<set $them = "it">>
<<set $themself = "itself">>
<<set $themselves = "themselves">>
<<set $their = "its">>
<<set $theirs = "its">>
<<set $theyre = "it's">>
<<set $youngPerson = "person">>
<<set $youngPeople = "people">>
<<set $adultPerson = "person">>
<<set $adultPeople = "people">>
<<set $generalPerson = "guy">>
<<set $generalPeople = "guys">>
<<set $pal = "pal">>
<<set $pals = "pals">>
<<set $They = "It">>
<<set $Them = "It">>
<<set $Themself = "Itself">>
<<set $Themselves = "Themselves">>
<<set $Their = "Its">>
<<set $Theirs = "Its">>
<<set $Theyre = "It's">>
<<set $YoungPerson = "Person">>
<<set $YoungPeople = "People">>
<<set $AdultPerson = "Person">>
<<set $AdultPeople = "People">>
<<set $GeneralPerson = "Guy">>
<<set $GeneralPeople = "Guys">>
<<set $Pal = "Pal">>
<<set $Pals = "Pals">>
<<default>>
<<set $they = "he">>
<<set $them = "him">>
<<set $themself = "himself">>
<<set $themselves = "themselves">>
<<set $their = "his">>
<<set $theirs = "his">>
<<set $theyre = "he's">>
<<set $youngPerson = "boy">>
<<set $youngPeople = "boys">>
<<set $adultPerson = "man">>
<<set $adultPeople = "men">>
<<set $generalPerson = "guy">>
<<set $generalPeople = "guys">>
<<set $pal = "dude">>
<<set $pals = "dudes">>
<<set $They = "He">>
<<set $Them = "Him">>
<<set $Themself = "Himself">>
<<set $Themselves = "Themselves">>
<<set $Their = "His">>
<<set $Theirs = "His">>
<<set $Theyre = "He's">>
<<set $YoungPerson = "Boy">>
<<set $YoungPeople = "Boys">>
<<set $AdultPerson = "Man">>
<<set $AdultPeople = "Men">>
<<set $GeneralPerson = "Guy">>
<<set $GeneralPeople = "Guys">>
<<set $Pal = "Dude">>
<<set $Pals = "Dudes">>
<</switch>>
<</nobr>><</widget>>
}}}
Then set the pronouns appropriately by calling the widget when the gender is chosen, and after that you just use the pronoun variables listed above in your text.
(Note: You'll also need to copy the section of widget code to a passage with a "widget" tag for that passage to display properly.)